Many men, regardless of age, report that the onset of erection problems was sudden. Despite never previously experiencing concerns about their erections, there came a moment when things changed abruptly.
- The issue often arises during periods of high stress in life, such as professional or financial challenges, or during times of intense pressure, like examination periods.
- For some, the problem emerges during their first encounter with a particularly attractive and enticing woman, which they often describe as encountering “blockers.”
- Others find that concerns about their overall health coincide with a loss of erection. For instance, men in their mid-40s may start worrying about cardiovascular health and then notice a decline in erectile function.
Many men report that their first sexual experience was marked by inadequate erections, which persisted thereafter. They often describe feeling insecure about their sexuality and find it challenging to approach women. Limited sexual experience is common among this group, and they frequently struggle to end relationships, even when they desire to do so.
It is quite common for men to experience a loss of erection at certain times, such as:
- During penetration or shortly after.
- When attempting to use a condom.
- When engaging with a particular individual, while with others, there is no issue.
Many men find that they can achieve satisfactory erections only when intimacy is established with their partner. However, when attempting intercourse with a less familiar partner, erection loss is almost inevitable. Men often function best when they feel secure and accepted by their partner.
Sexual intercourse involves both partners, and it’s essential to consider the impact on the partner when erectile issues arise. Women may experience their own cycle of anxiety when their partner loses an erection. They may worry about their attractiveness, fear infidelity, or become anxious about their ability to conceive. These thoughts can lead to decreased sexual desire, tension during intercourse, and insufficient stimulation for their partner. Just as men may develop negative feelings and avoid sexual contact, women may also withdraw or create tension within the relationship, affecting their daily life and overall relationship.
For optimal management of erectile dysfunction, we recommend that partners of men with this issue carefully watch the videos at www.mindmyerection.com.
The first step in treatment is understanding the problem and learning how to manage it effectively. We recommend watching the videos at www.mindmyerection.com, where Evi Kyrana presents essential information to aid in self-help. In some cases, close attention to these videos is sufficient to resolve the issue. However, for more complex cases, personalized treatment through individual sessions may be necessary. Before the first session, watching the videos prepares individuals and expedites the personalized treatment strategy.
When performance anxiety is the cause of erectile dysfunction, counseling and psychosexual treatment by qualified experts are necessary. The specialist will assess various factors exacerbating the anxiety, such as living conditions, general stress, relationship issues, coexistence of other psychological problems, and past sexual experiences. Following an assessment, the specialist will propose a treatment plan, typically lasting around three months.
Psychological intervention yields better results when involving the partner and is applied to the couple. Psychosexual therapy can be complemented with drugs that facilitate erection, known as phosphodiesterase inhibitors, helping couples resume their sexual life while undergoing treatment. Often, these drugs are taken daily to alleviate scheduling stress and maintain spontaneity.
Therapy provides couples with an opportunity not only to improve sexual function but also to enhance sexual communication and the overall quality of their sexual relationship. After treatment, many couples find that they enjoy their sex life even more than before the onset of the problem!
